Been a while since I posted anything so I thought I would come on and give it a whack. Most of the time I just don’t have as much free time as I wish I did, but seeing as I am sitting here in a hospital bed, I have all the time in the world to write my thoughts away… So here we go.
I have been thinking about things alot lately. Laying in a bed 24/7 does that to you. I might go for a bit of a walk tonight if the nurses let me actually, suss out the hospital LOOL.
But like… Why do people feel the need to lie to the ones they love? Or why do they feel the need to lie in general.. I mean, if someone is pissing you off, tell them. If you don’t wanna be with someone anymore, break up with them. If you have feelings for someone, let them know. Why the hell do people just beat around the bush all the time?
Yes, I get it, the truth hurts sometimes. But I personally, as well as any other NORMAL human being (assuming that there is a meaning for normal), would prefer the truth over some bullsh*t lie that was only put there to ‘not hurt you’. Now come on, that is a load of crap.
I mean, hands up girls, if you have ever been lied to by a guy cause he just ‘didn’t wanna hurt your feelings’ or ‘he just wasn’t sure’?
Same can go for the guys… How many girls have lied to you cause ‘they’re too nice’… Seriously guys, this is peoples feelings we are talking about.
Can people honestly just be that selfish as to not think about others before they do things?
Not mentioning any names… One of my previous boyfriends was texting this girl. She had feelings for him while he was with me and he texted her quite often.. Then, she goes to him ‘I’m so depressed, come over and talk to me.’
Now me, being the girlfriend who didn’t want to behave like a jealous, over protective bitch, said to him ‘yeah sure, go for it, go comfort her’.
But inside…? I died a little….
So anyway, I said to him, just tell me when you get home… Midnight rolls around and I get a phone call from him saying he is home…
Bro, what the fuck.
A. She knew he had a girlfriend. What a skank.
B. He knew he had a girlfriend… Wtf?
And C. Any guy should know when it involves going to another girls house? You just don’t do it. Meet in a public place at DAY TIME.
Now I trusted him enough to believe him when he said nothing happened, but when a few days later I ask him, AS A JOKE, if I can go through his phone and he got protective and denied me? Things got fishy…
If you have something to say, SAY IT!!
So then he comes over to me and says ‘Mel… If you went through my phone right now you would probably think I have feelings for her.’
Here is how the conversation between him and her went.
Girl - We will never have another chance, will we…
Boy - Fate will tell.
If you were serious about me, you would have told her flat out…
End of story. No if’s, but’s or maybe’s… Honestly… WHY DO WE LIE?!
Either he has feelings for her and won’t tell me, or he is fucking round with her feelings. So why the hell should people lie?
So if there is something YOU’RE not telling someone, just come straight out and say it. You would want them to be honest with you, so let’s all just be team players and treat others how we wanna be treated.
Simple, but effective.
So, why do people insist on being stupid and telling lies…? I mean, yeah, okay, a little white lie never hurt anyone. But why the hell would you wanna fuck around with someones feelings… I mean, every one lives and breathes. Everyone has the equal right to the truth and a fair go.
I mean, just because everyone looks different on the outside, it sure as hell doesn’t mean they are different on the inside. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and should be given the respect and honesty that you would expect from others.
Treat others how you want to be treated.
I could not agree with this any more. I mean… I treat people with respect and honesty (most of the time), but I am treated like absolute crap in return. What the hell did I do to deserve that???
I mean honestly, that is why I have just given some of my so called ‘friends’ the flick lately. Some of them just don’t treat me the way that I deserve to be treated. I deserve better then to be lied to, fucked around and called inappropriate names. Those people know who they are and shame on them.
They need to know that not everyone will put up with it. Not everyone will stand for being treated like crap. And if one of my friends is being treated the wrong way?? Sure as hell you can expect me to stand up for them, especially if they won’t stand up for themselves. Because everyone deserves to be treated nicely, no matter what they look like, their education, family back ground or anything else.
Fair enough, is someone is an ass you be an ass back. But not the innocent people…
Guys. I have talked about this before, and I know that it is not all guys… But for those of you who do it, please stop thinking with your dicks and think about the beautiful girls that you are playing on… They deserve better then to be fucked around with.
I know some frikkin amazing girls who are being played around by jerks…. I cannot stress enough that you need to stop fucking around with girls and their feelings.
Most of us are vulnerable and we don’t need your crap. So, hows about we all just take a step back and think ‘hmm, how is this going to make them feel?’. It needs to happen. It seriously does guys.
So, with all that off my mind….
Let’s have a good week guys :)
Mellie Jayne __xo
So I don’t understand it…. Why do girls feel this compulsive need to believe that a man completes them? I know it is HIGHLY hypocritical of me to say this, but why can’t girls be independant and think for themselves? Why can’t we be happy with friends and family..? I mean, is it cause we need sex? No. Because girls could get that without being in a relationship.. Is it to feel loved? No, because we have friends and family for that.
So what is it that a boyfriend can offer us that no one else can? I mean I have been thinking about it alot lately, because many of the women around me I know, base their whole lives around the one that they love. Their ‘main man’. Why? Why do they do it?
Which I suppose will then bring me to ask something about guys. How come they are so scared of relationships..? Okay, not scared. But how come 98% of males just think with their dick all the time? Yes, girls get horny. Girls feel the need for sex. But we don’t base our whole lives around it.. Seriously. That’s just stupidity.
What is the difference between having a relationship with a girl and being friends with benefits, other than the fact that there is no strings attached?? Doesn’t it feel nicer knowing that the person you’re hooking up with isn’t going to be with another guy 5 minutes later? Doesn’t hooking up mean more when you have feelings for the person you’re doing it with?
It just honestly does my head in. I am seriously confused, because I know plenty of people who are in relationships that are making them miserable, but stay in the relationship for fear of being alone. I would rather be alone than in a relationship with a guy who treats me like shit. I have more self respect than that.. I just wish I could say the same for the people around me.
Wake up to yourself girls!! You are unique, you are beautiful, and you are better then that! Stop selling yourself short of what you deserve. Because every girl deserves to be treated like a Princess, not to lie on your back for your boyfriend because it is the only thing keeping you together…
So think about it….. All I have to leave you guys with, is think about it. Be happy with the skin your in, and don’t settle for anything short of the best for you.
Probably my ex best friend… He means alot to me and I am not sure what happened.. But I miss him. I miss us.
when someone talks to you:
when you and your best friend say something at the same time:
At a 5 star restaurant:
Talknig to your crush:
Explaining directions to someone:
Giving your bestfriend a hug:
And people just look at you like:
and you’re just like:
So who the hell would want to grow up? I never want to grow up..
I mean, what fun is that..? Getting older, getting mature and getting wrinkles..? Getting a bad attitude, losing your sense of humour and becoming scared of the world? I mean sure, I am already scared of the world as it is but at least I have that itch to get out there, make something of myself and experience things for what they are.
Older people seem to get scared of getting out of their house and meeting new people. Scared of going out and experiencing new things and scared of what might happen to themselves or those around them.
I think people who take themselves too seriously at our age are going to grow up and regret alot of what they have done with their life. I mean, I know I have done a few things that I look back on and think ‘Wow I really wish I had have done that, instead of being too scared’. How else will you learn, unless you make a few mistakes on the way.
The worst mistake anyone can make, is being afraid to make mistakes.
^^^ So true.
I mean, who wants to go through their lives not living, not making an ass of yourself every now and then, not getting the chance to really live.
I mean, I really believe that you should live your life for what it is now. Live in the moment, because you never really know which day will be your last….